Being in a relationship, enjoying the dating, etc, is the dream of every woman, who hates to be single. It is not necessary that every relationship should lasts until marriage. Some situations make couples to either take their relationship to the next level or to just break up. However, things take an unexpected turn when the girl comes to know that she is pregnant, after the breakup.
Almost 90 to 99% of the girls, who undergo painful breakup usually goes through the depression mode, and finally get back to their normal life and move on. However, the remaining 1% discovers that they are pregnant with the child of their ex-boyfriend.
Most of the sites offer remedies for this problem in many ways that may not only affect the life of the girl, but both the people involved. Not all the remedies result in positive effects.
If you are in the same condition and searching for answers, then here is some help.
Straighten out your Priorities
Before you realised that you are pregnant, your priority was to get your ex back. However, now that you have an unborn child to think about, your boyfriend automatically becomes your second priority. However, it is because you are becoming the mother of his child, you want him back in both your lives.
A real man even though never expected this, will surely like to be a part of the baby’s life as its father. It is easily understood that your man is not up for the task, if he does not want anything to do with you or the baby’s life. Hence, if your guy is really up for the task, then getting him back in your life is really worth trying for, so set your priorities straight.
Does wanting him back in your life makes you a Gold Digger?
The important question to ask here is whether you want him just as for monetary support or do you really like to have him in your life. Men usually accuse women, who approach them even after the breakup as the gold diggers. Even though you do not wish to, but it is very much necessary that you become selfless and forgiving for the sake of your child’s bright future.
Getting rid of “My life is over” mindset
Men usually get scared to death by the mere thought of their girl friend being pregnant with their child. This is because, they are well aware about the fact that this is like a full stop to their freedom and also to settle with one girl. If your ex-boyfriend has this mindset, then just make it clear about the fact that his life is not over and just it requires making some change.
When you are with the “I want my ex boyfriend back” aim, your priorities becomes the healthy. Even though it becomes quite difficult for him to suddenly accept the fact, you can take one-step at a time by inviting him for all child related activities such as check-up, maternity exercises, etc, to get him on board.
